Next month, I am having my first women’s circle. It is all about Dancing with I Don’t Know.
Many of us, myself included, struggle with admitting and saying “I don’t know.” Honestly, its a scary place to admit being in. We also live in a society that insists that we have everything figured out all of the time.
What I have noticed in my life is that even if I don’t admit I don’t know, I still feel it. It’s like trying to hold on to a secret and feeling like I am holding my breath. I wonder what if we just get honest about not knowing? What if we embrace not knowing rather than try to push it away? What if we really feel into it.
I can attest that when I dance with I don’t know, I feel more alive. I feel my heart breaking,and then I feel light rush in. I feel lighter. I feel liberated.
A wonderful thing happens too: I start to move fluidly in that unknowing and begin to gain a new sense of clarity.
It’s ok to say you don’t know. It’s ok to not know. It’s ok to embrace it.
If you want to dig deeper into this dance, I invite you to join the circle taking place on May 14th at 7pm CST via phone/internet. It promises to be a safe space where you can learn to dance with I Don’t Know in a whole new way.
For more details: http://vulnerabilityissexy.com/join-the-circle/
If you have questions, feel free to email me: firstname.lastname@example.org